That is why I do not agree at all with Marguerite Dumas when she says that
'You have to be very fond of people to be able to love them. Very very fond. Otherwise they're simply unbearable.' .
Ofcourse people can get on our nerves.
But consider this dear Marguerite: they can't help it!
People are imperfect, limited, stupid, insecure and poorly designed fellow creatures who are desperately trying their best.
With this in mind, it is much easier to like them,
Or to look at them, listen to them and even love them.